I'm not sure if this will help or not but here goes...
I've been having problems with the game reloading - freezing - 'bouncing' - and the lag is tremendous! I have been changing my wardrobe a lot, but only in the past 2 to 3 days. (same time frame listed by PoS). Last night I started to Follow ProphetCRW and it appeared that he was dragging my avi... Backward. The screen was jumping all over the place. Meanwhile, both Prophet (who I was following) and Fanng (who was following me) appeared normal with no problems noted.
PoS found me this morning to voice her concerns about not "hearing" me in live feed (many people would NOT find this to be a problem - haha) and that she started a thread about it in forums. So, I had her post something, and I could see her. I replied to her post, but she could NOT see me.
Don't know what to do about this... Anyone wanna take a stab at it?