What you saw was not intended for you. We do not have the ability to "direct" our updates at anyone in particular. It was intended for another friend who will know EXACTLY what I'm talking about. I value all opinions, except those that say I have no right to my own opinion. I'm very sorry that you saw that and assumed it was meant for you. All I can do is assure you that it was not and tell you that the actual reason I friended you was because I felt like you were treated poorly in the forums.