it seems like a lot of different people have a lot of different ideas about the way the order for actions should be, so what if each player could order these actions in the way they want?
for example, someone could pick the order of: rocks take precedence over animals, which take precedence over shrines. maybe be able to do this within submenus too, so with butterflies, for example, the order could be milk -> massage -> sing -> name/rename.
i dont know how hard this might be to implement though!