I first asked a question on general about the workings of adding friends and making it mutual.
Now I understand it, I feel the need to complain about it.
Is there no way it could be changed that if you add a friend they only show up on their friends list if I also make it mutual? I don't really see the point of having a friends list if you have no control over who can claim your friendship.
If I have this right, if someone adds me as a buddy/friend I will show up on THEIR friends list. They will only show up on MINE if I make it mutual? this is how it shows for me anyway. I dont really like how someone can add you as a buddy and even if you don't make it mutual you show as THEIR buddy!
I want someone to be my "friend" because they want to be, not because I just MADE them mine :( I also don't want to look as if i'm someone friend if its just for show. Especially if I have never even spoken to them or acknowledged them In some sort of way.
Sorry if it seems petty, I just like to look my friends/buddies in the eye :)